I’ve been hearing this a lot recently, or at least my awareness of how often this statement is used has increased.
“Get over it”: what does that even mean?
As someone who has had a fair share to “get over” as I’m sure we’ve all had, to me this sentence feels unkind, unfair, untrue and unconstructive.
To “get over” something, implies skipping over, avoiding, moving past, almost not acknowledging the existence of whatever it is we are dealing with in any way. It feels harsh, judge-y, unfeeling, dismissive, uncaring.
What if instead we encouraged each other to “get through it”? Already that feels so much more empathetic, fair and constructive.
To me, to “get through” implies: processing, progressing, acknowledgement, truth, integrity, non-judgement, learning, growth, patience, the space to feel all of my feelings, compassion and ultimately – healing.
I know that over the last couple of years I’ve chosen “getting through” over “getting over” and I can wholeheartedly say that it has done wonders for me. It can be messy for sure. It can be uncomfortable, yes. I’ve had to get vulnerable, *really* vulnerable and authentic with myself and those around me but it’s led to two of the things I aspire to cultivating most in my life – profound growth and a true and deep sense of peace.
For those reasons alone, as uncomfortable as it can feel, it’s definitely worth getting through it every time.
If you feel ready to enter into a safe and beautiful space in which your feelings and experiences can be acknowledged and used to instigate your growth towards something you may deeply desire: a beautiful intimate relationship with your beloved, then the ‘Transform Your Love Life from the Inside Out’ workshop could be for you.
On the evening of Tuesday 3rd July, I will be hosting this amazing workshop again at The Driver, Kings Cross. This workshop will allow you to begin to see the power you hold to create happiness in your love life. No matter what has happened in your past, you will begin to see that you have a bright future in love.
During this 2-hour workshop, I will take you through a series of heart opening interactive exercises, meditation and ritual to really allow for core shifts to be made and start you off on your journey to true love.
The workshops are a wonderfully intimate, nurturing and transformative environment with like-minded souls all connecting on this journey together.
The first 10 tickets are available at half price of just £6 and I have the last few left so if you’re ready to get through to something you so deeply desire and are ready then I’d love for you to join me for this wonderful experience together! Tickets are available here.
Wishing you Love. Light. Miracles. xxx